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well, I'll talk about relationship in this post today....

okok, most of you might find it funny in disbelief that I actually am writing about relationships...

 

let's talk about 2 individuals (boy and girl)

 

girls, (since I am a boy, so I shall write this from a guy's point of view)

I am sure most of you all want to know what a guy wants from a relationship right?

well, to be honest...

I can't give a precise answer to you all as well,

since all guys have different point of view of what is a relationship...

it's hard to tell...

 

is it affection? attention? time? understanding? accompaniment? money? sex?

 

to me, understanding is most important,

once you understand each other, you will somehow know what your partner is thinking, thus, the answer to the above question will be easily answered..

 

to be honest, what a boy want will be to have an understanding girlfriend

a girl who understands him,

know what he want's and what he needs...

 

and most of the time, a guy wants to be able to be there for his girl, to be able to protect her...

to be able to make her smile, seeing his girl smile means more than the world...

and most of all, to be able to share his ups and downs with her

(for me, I think long time before I can experience these feelings since I still wanna travel across the 5 continents and the 7 seas)

 

 

well, I was once naive and once thought that sex has nothing to do with love, but I was wrong perhaps?

not that it's an important part, but sex plays a petite role, but may also be a crucial role in a relationship...

many may disagree, but it's true...

 

 

and in pattorlogy, the keywords would be trust, honesty, and to give and take

you must be able to trust each other, and in order to do so, you all must be honest at the first place...

and, bare in mind that no one in this world is perfect, it's hard enough to find a person who you love and whom love you back. Give and take, forgive your partner's mistakes and accept him or her for who he or she is...

 

 

 

By: The Love Guru gregorule (pun intended)

 

this is just a short post of my thought, any agreements or apposing ideas? kindly comment...

Comments

Nigel said…
Unchartered territory, no comment.

But the million dollar question: Do you have a gf? C'mon, don't bull me. ^^
gregorule said…
nigel, i am clear...
no GF la...

why would i wanna bull u?
nixxie said…
greg has a girlfriend????? It'll be the news of the century.. But i ain't hearing any news of the century from him lately, so I guess that's a fraud huh.
gregorule said…
thanks nixxie for clearing things up...

nigel has been haunting me with that question since like when i was born...

@__@
Nigel said…
Since you were born? O.o You give yourself too much credit. Haha, kidding.

But really ma? I see your pattern, capable playboy kekeke.
Anonymous said…
hmm. very vague, neither here nor there. alot of the basic stuff. being someone in a relationship, i think if one were to advise on the subject - one should at least have sufficient experiences to draw points from.

ah well.
princesz mel said…
greg..me understd wat ur tryin 2 say..well i noe how 2 thk abt love..n da most important thg is wat u thk abt love..dats important..miracles happen if u blieve..so kip on blieving
gregorule said…
well it doest take for me to experience love to enable me to say something...
who has the rights to stop someone from expressing wat they think about love?

anonymous: i expect a constructive comment from my readers. sometimes, the basic stuffs are the most crucial part of maintaining a relationship.

mel: thank for your support